Va sku va värre än det?

Igår var jag, Micke och en Mickes kompis på Rax och äta pizzalunch (jaa, min diet har inte varit särskilt hälsosam på sista tiden...) och vi satt och tala om något som troligtvis hade med uppfostran, hushållsarbete eller dataspelande att göra och det var troligtvis nåt som jag inte tyckte att var passande (har absolut inget minne av vad det var, men det är inte heller poängen nu).

Då sa Mickes kompis att "det kan ju leda till skilsmässa, eller nåt ännu värre". Så kom det så spontant och seriöst från Mickes mun: "Vad sku va värre än det?!"

Min härliga man tycker med andra ord att det värsta som sku kunna ske är en skilsmässa. Det var så sött!

Manala besök

Gårdagskvällen var jättelyckad men oj vad jag åt alltför mycket! Mår ännu dåligt av det trots att jag ren idag varit på två promenader, plus att jag fick spendera en del av kvällen på toaletten igår. Romantiskt! Min kropp tycks inte tåla alltför stora fettmängder. Men ångrar att jag åt det gör jag inte, för det var såå, såå gott!!!

Micke väntar på tåget i Malmgård. Han e så fin, speciellt i skjortan jag köpt åt honom.


Vi dela på en fruktig kycklingssallad som förrätt, det enda hälsosamma och lätta vi intog. Micke läser sitt fina brev, igen överraskad över att jag kom ihåg det!

Som huvudrätt dela vi på 400g kött i kryddig gräddsås med lök och bacon (massor!) på. Det serverades med vitlökspotatis. Helt toppengott! Efter det var vi båda helt proppmätta, men ville ha en liten sötbit på det så tänkte att glass med kinsuskisås sku sitta bra. Ja, så det beställde jag. Lite överraskad jag blev när jag får en mega glassportion med 3 bollar glass och grädde. Efter det sprack jag nästan. Men det var ju så gott och inte kan man lämna mat. Så då får man lida.

Mitt största intresse är mat, och då främst att äta mat.

4 år och halvt år

Jag tycker om att komma ihåg grejer och dagar och idag är en viktig dag. Idag den 14 augusti är det 4 år sen jag och Micke blev tillsammans och exakt halvt år sen vi svara ja i kyrkan på den stora frågan.

Hur känns det nu då att vara gift? Jaa, inget har ju ändrat men på något vis är det mera lugnt, mindre problem. Båda vet att den andra älskar en fast man har oenigheter och gräl och sen är båda också bundna vid att kämpa för ett så bra förhållande för resten av livet. Mera harmoniskt, mera perfekt.

Älskar honom så massor!

Den stora dagen till ära har jag spenderat morgonen med att städa badrummet och göra utrymme för babyskötsel medan Micke är på jobb. Före han kommer hem ska ja hinna skriva ett brev åt honom, det är en tradition jag har. Varje gång vi har varit ett till halvt år tillsammans skriver jag ett brev om allt som hänt det föregående halvår, på det sättet kommer vi också efter 50 år att komma ihåg vad som hände när. Det här blir väl nu det 8:e brevet.

På kvällen ska vi gå till Manala och äta, inte för att vi egentligen har råd, men för att spendera lite tid på tumanhand och för att jag aldrig varit där.

My greatest husband!

I got these earreings when Micke got back from work yesterday.

Such a total suprise so I did not even know how to react. Tought he might have got them from somebody, stolen them (maybe not), bought them together with some candy from an Alepa or some other weird thing. But no, he had just got them for me, without any smarter reason than that he loves me. Yeah. Happy, happy me.

Lately..

The weather has been really nice in Helsinki the last week, sunny and cold. Today there is of course no sun, but it does not really matter since I am working.

Me before the stand up in an Irish bar. I look quite horrible in this picture...

Pedu was also there...

..and Lee. Mine and Mickes best friends. It was really nice being with them. I had a lot of fun!

Micke and Pedus highlight of the evening. A photo with, at least Mickes, long time idol. Micke was really happy with his birthday present. Yeah. I'm good!

Today I have alreay been out with Jigi, eaten one breakfast, taken a shower and now I am washing clothes. Micke is working already. He is such a good husband!

Still alive

Hi!

I have been focusing on writing, have to be done on Sunday, but I am soon done. This is just the first version, will probably have to change a lot still, so no panic. I am just fighting with the conclusion...

Micke is now 26, he turned on Wednesday. I gave him tickets to Pablo Francisco and a Ben and Jerry cookie dough, and a nice shripfetacesar salad.

Now I am going to Pojo to relax with my mom and Jigi. Bye, bye.

My cute Micky

Micke is so cute sometimes.

He just called me and said he had some good news. I was expecting something big, and then he says:

I love you.

I guess that is big and good, but not maybe what I expected.

Micke and the handbag

If you click on the first photo of the previous post you will see that Micke is carrying my handbag. That is not unusual, especially with that black handbag. You can't put it on your arm so you just have to carry it and it is always in the way, quite annoying to carry, and since it is quite big it is usually quite full and heavy. So I always find a good reason to give it to Micke, for example that I will take a picture, and then I sort of forget to take it back.

And then big Mike is not so manly anyore.

1 year engagement day

4.1.2009, yesterday, was it one year since Micke proposed to me on our diving trip in Ecuador. Time flies fast. So yesterday I took the responsability of making a good 1 year engagement day. And I did great (and now I am poor). I had made a reservation to a meditarrenean restaurant called Macu, so that is where we started at 14.00 with a 3 course meal. Had the best applecake ever as desert. It was applemascarpone cake with cinnamon sauce, sounds boring but it was just so perfect. Yum. The intrior design of the place was lovely, a lot of black everywhere.

After the meal we went out in the cold weather, around -10 the whole day, and bought green outdoor pants for Micke, then to Belge on a whiskey (for Micke) and then to the next suprise moment of the day. The movie Australia.

It is a great movie, I have never cried in a movie, this time I did, but just a bit. It was a long movie with a lot of pulseraising places, it was hard to predict what would happen so I was nervous all the time. And the best thing was that it was not like all the other movies focusing on just one problem. I loved it. It is so beautiful and the actors are jsut great. Hugh Jackman and Nicole Kidman. It is also funny.

After the movie we went to Amarillo, I had a minttukaakao and Micke a whiskey. After a quick stop to McDonalds we came home and watched criminal minds. Great, great day!!!

Messilä

Today we drove to Messilä (1,5h from us) to snowboard. And it was so worth it. I miss snowboarding. My legs and foot took the pain for not having snowboarded in 2 years, but after a while it got better. Today was a really wintery day, between -10 and -15 and the sun was shining. It was not too cold, just beautiful, but a bit icy. It was a really great day. I would like to go to for example Åre and ski next year, or somewhere in the Alps.

Eating a healthy lunch in 2009. Luckily I did not promise to become healthier, I hope. We were well dressed. The view was great! And the weather too.

Messy me.

I don't know what's wrong with me, but nothing goes as planned anymore. I am always, at least used to be, very sharp, I don't forget, loose or mess-up things. This last week I have done it so many times.
It started with not having my passport with me and messing up everybody's Milan trip. Today I forgot my working shoes at home, so had to walk around in rubber boots at work for 8 hours, and I walk a lot as a waitres. I don't get my schoolstuff done and I am just a mess.

Is it the dark, rainy fall (it has still not snowed in Helsinki)? Or my flue? Or that I feel stressed? Or that I miss my poor husband to be?

He is out in the dark rainy woods with no toilet, no pillow, only a thin matress and a sleeping bag, a lot of responsability and only boys and guns and bears around him. Don't like the finnish army when they take him away from me for a week. I need my hugs and kisses.

Micke quote

Micke in the train on the way home after 2,5 h of bugg:

"If you could remove one thing from the world, you would have a hard time choosing between poverty and world of warcraft."

Interesting behaviour

Micke has now 5 days of no school. Lucky him, no plans, nothing to do, just relax. Great for him.
We are soon going to celebrate my mom. And Micke had somehow missed that my brother and his girlfriend would also come. When the light turned on and he counted that there were 5 plates and not 3, he rushed to shave himself and put other clothes than blue broken pants and orange top.
I guess my brother and his girlfriend are more important than my mom and Jigi...

I love him.

Jigi will be here until Sunday.

Love dogs. And Micke.

Today when I got home from school I found these dogs in really cute positions. Micke had gone to a friend (he didn't have any shool today) and then he had left the house in perfect condition. Love it. Love him. Love suprises.

I am tired

I am both tired, and tired. Tired because of too little sleep, and tired of having disagreements with Micke every day. My tireness now is because of both these things. Sad but true. I hope that if I get it out of my system (inother words wiritng it out, not keeping it in) I can continue, without annoyence. Smart what?
There is a game called world of warcraft, and you can play it on internet with other people. It is the best game to keep people playing it, there are different levels, and when you reach the highest (can take months) you have to play to get better and get better things for your guy. The worst things of all is that you have to pay a monthly fee for playing it. So that means you just have to keep on playing if you once started. Smart people that invented it, but it won't help mine and Mickes situation, since he is quite hooked on that stupid, stupid game. I accpet him playing and understand that people have differnet hobbies, so that is not the problem.
The problem is that on Tuesday he played for 6 hours and came to bed at 2. Yesterday he palyed for 8 hours and came to bed at 1.30. And he sort of forgot me. And I think I should be more important than a game. He forgot to tell me goodnight, and he alwyas does that if I go earlier to bed, but not yesterday. So I woke up, when he came to bed at 1.30, and we had a big fight. Again. I would so liek to destroy that game, because it takes all his focus. He promised no to play for the whole next week, wonder how that will go.

But there are potentially some good news also, maybe. Involving a trip, but just maybe. And tonight I will see Dagny. Yey! So long since last time. She is also one of my bridesmaids... I think black will be their color. What doyou think about that?

Drastic measures

I got sick of the fact that if one of us, me and Micke, is a bit annoyed or tired or something, we talk to each other in a stupid way, a lot with the words again, always, never. For example me complaining you never make food, you never take the initative to wash clothes, you always play computer games and again you forgot something. And these things are not true, in all the cases sometimes should have been used. So, there will be a boycot, at least from my side in the house of using these words (Micke does not know it yet), so I put up all these papers.





Another problem is that we expect the other to be as the other one is. For example Micke tells/asks me why I don't stand in the door for a long time in the morning when he leaves when he does it for me, and I again would like him to be more into wedding planning and cooking and baking and so on. We have just lately missed the fact that we are different, and behave differently, so we should not expect the other one the behave like the first one. But it's hard, especially with houshold things, I would like it to be exactly equal, that we put exactly the same amount on time on houshold stuff, I guess that will never happen. Hope my notes will help. One of them fell already.

Hi

Micke is a WoWholic. I am really anoyed right now. Lee is here. I made a mud cake, it was too muddy, all the mud was in the end on the table. Not my bakingday today. Not at all. We had a playing card game night yesterday. It was fun. Tanja suggested osama bin laden would be USA next president.

I want, you want, we want

Sometimes we have funny problems with Micke. For example when there are 2 dishes left from previous days, in other words one portion of one dish, and one of the other. Then there is the problem, who gets which food. Because Micke wants me to get the food I like more, and I want Micke to have the food he likes more. And then it might be quite problematic, if we both think the other one wants one of the dishes. It might even result in a fight. And even more problematic if for example I, don't know which food Micke would like to have more, and he won't answer with a simple answer, because he wants to give me the better food. Problematic?! Yes.
But one day we found the greatest solution. We both eat half and half of the dishes. And then we won't have any problems. And we get a more diverse diet.

Micke has a blue toe

Micke hit his toa against the training bike in the morning. Really hard, and now it has a weird blue purple color. Now he is eating Nesquick choclate flakes with milk. He is a big baby. But he is mine.

Love notes

I have had a great day today, didn't throw milk on anyone. But the morning was absolutly the best. I had to get up early (8) to be at work at 10. I went to the shower and found the cutest note in the shower, there was a heart/apple/happy face picture and cute i love you words from Micke. He had written it when he got home last night and put it in the shower where I would see it. Then there also was another note by the coffee maker. So perfect! It made me very, very happy. He is so the best when he wants to be.

But now I am a bit sad, because he is not home, working (it is his 6th day in a row and he still has 2 to go). And then a lot of people died in madrid. I don't want planes to fall, it makes me not want to fly. Because I want to have a nice long future with Micke.

I have not eaten candy, choclate, ice cream, cookies or bad sweets for 2,5 days. I still have 2,5 days left. Then I have achived my goal of no bad sweets for 5 days. I am good!